So earlier in September I came across an article by Anna Bashkova
about how girls with a big heart but a complicated mind love differently… and I’m
kind of in love with it. I made a few tweaks here and there and the results are
glimpses of the interworkings of my mind when it comes to love:
Being with the girl with a big heart but complicated mind
may sometimes feel like you’re dating the most complex and satisfying of all
puzzles.
Just when you start to feel like you’re figuring her out –
you find another piece of the puzzle that throws everything off.
The girl with a big heart but complicated mind definitely loves
differently. Spoiler alert: you’ll always be entertained.
1.
Our
hearts keep it simple- we fall in love to the fullest extent and we never
second guess our feelings. When we love, we love intensely and we’re 110 percent sure.
2.
But our
minds are another story- they’re analytical and imaginative and we think
about everything. A lot. We admit
that we’re over thinkers. Or could the
rest just be under-thinkers? In any case, we end up making every situation
in our life about 100x more difficult than it has to be. Sawry.
3.
We still
appreciate every little thing you do. Whether it’s picking us up for a
date, playing with our hair when we’re watching a movie or calling to see how
we’re feeling. We’re quick to realize it and thank you for your sincerity.
4.
But we’ll
never just go along with some semblance of a mediocre passionless relationship.
That might mean we’ll sometimes argue with you at inopportune times, but it’s
not because we like drama – our anger is fueled by passion and emotions. We
care and only want the best for ourselves and our partner.
5.
That
might mean at times we’ll challenge or confront you. As much as we love
you, we aren’t the type of girl who nods and laughs and is always comfortable,
we aren’t easy- as in, we don’t just always “go with the flow”.
6.
But that’s
because we crave more from you- we have opinions and big dreams for the
future. We won’t put up with not getting everything we deserve. We won’t let
you get away with slacking on your talents.
7.
We’re
complicated but not when it comes to our feelings for you- we’re more than
happy to spend a night in with you, cuddling and watching a funny movie. Just
spending time with us and showing us your love is more than enough.
8.
Yes, at
times we can get angry and be difficult, but know our intentions are always
good. We’re not insecure control freaks, in fact we’re the exact opposite. We
just think. A lot. We’ll teach you how to be a better boyfriend and person
because we won’t let you do whatever you want.
9.
Some of
the best gifts you can give us have no price tag. We get chills when you
say the words “I love you” and we actually melt every time you look into our
eyes with emotion and sincerity.
10.
Communication
is the greatest form of intimacy to us. None of your stories are
unimportant. We want to hear it all.
11.
Our
hearts are very straightforward. We either get into a relationship where we
know that we’re putting our time and energy into something that will ultimately
pay off or end in a serious commitment.. Or we’re just not going to bother. If
we like someone, we really like them.
12.
But our
minds couldn’t be further from conventional. We hate the concept of how
things are “supposed to be.” We couldn’t have a “normal” life if we tried. We
have no desire to follow the pre-determined form which means we will never just
accept something; we question everything and investigate things for ourselves.
13.
You’ll
never be left uninspired or unsatisfied. It’s our intolerance of how things
“are supposed to be” that has sparked us to innovate the lives we actually want
to live, and we’ll definitely expand your
mind and capabilities because of it.
14.
Yes, we
have a lot of enigmatic traits. Our head and heart can be a paradox all
within themselves. At times it won’t be easy, but no one will love you better.
No one will fill your life with more passion and inspiration.
So there’s that. ♥
xoxo,
Patricia T.
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